Being An Adult Hodgepodge

Joyce From This Side of the Pond has a fresh set of questions for us to ponder for Wednesday Hodgepodge.

1. Growing up, at what age did you think you’d become an adult? At what age did you actually become an adult? 

If I thought about it I didn’t call it being an adult. The older siblings in my family had some responsibilities that were adult like earlier in life. Our parents immigrated to the U.S. just after World War II, legally. Our mom never drove and our pop had to work hard to support a family with 8 children.  Sometimes my older sisters and I walked into town to pay bills in person with cash from our parents. We got ourselves to swimming lessons, the library, and to school. When I got my license there were times that I took my younger brothers to their baseball practices and games. When many of my friends were at senior prom, I was at my younger brother’s baseball game.  In my senior year of high school I had enough credits to graduate with morning classes. I found an afternoon job at a local company and got rides to and from work. I saved up for college with that job. I earned scholarships for most of my college costs. My older sister drove me to the University of Redlands for my freshman year and helped me settle in. We didn’t have and didn’t expect input from our parents on which college to go to. If they could they would help with college costs but mostly we paid our own way. We purchased our own cars and they were mostly used cars. After college I was able to finance my Volkswagen at a school credit union and when I paid that off, like an adult, I earned some good credit.

2.  What’s a favorite item you’ve bought this year?

At our church my area of service is the kitchen and the hospitality branch. We had some money left in the budget so I was able to purchase a coffee system that got plumbed and makes providing coffee at functions so much easier. Instead of those big old coffee pots that you have to fill with water, add the coffee in the baskets and plug in two hours before an event, we can now fill a basket with coffee grounds push the button on the new system and have 2.2liters of coffee in 5 minutes. Yes, and amen!

3. May 28th is National Hamburger Day…are you a fan? If so, how do you like yours? When was the last time you had a hamburger? Besides the backyard grill, what’s your favorite place to go for a burger? 

We do enjoy a good burger. We hadn’t had burgers for a long while but Saturday of Memorial weekend we had a good burger on the way home from shopping in Spokane. We enjoy the burgers at Masters Brew House in Deer Park. Their onion jam that you can have on a burger is delicious. Sorry to say we haven’t found a good burger in Colville. We have fond memories of In N Out burgers.

4.  How have your priorities changed over time? 

The closer I get to heaven the more concerned I am about friends and family and people in general who haven’t had their debt to God paid by Jesus Christ. We all have a debt of sin on our accounts. You can trust Christ who suffered and died and rose from the dead to provide that debt payment.  You need to ask forgiveness (repent) for your sin and put your faith in him and His sacrifice. What Jesus accomplished will pay your debt in full or you will have to pay that sin debt to God yourself in hell. Only Christ’s sacrifice provides the way. You can not earn it by being a ‘good’ person or a ‘religious’ person. It’s a no brainer to me. I’m getting too old to sugar coat this message. Heaven is real and Hell is real. Jesus is the way, the truth and the life. No man comes to the Father but by Him.

5. What’s one thing on your June calendar you’re really looking forward to? 

The very last weekend in June our family of 10 will be enjoying time together in Walla Walla at a VRBO.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Our son gifted his dear bride a long weekend away over Memorial Weekend. He took time off of work and cared for our Grands while mommy was gone. We enjoyed feeding them a meal on Friday night of the weekend.

First corn on the cob this year!

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16 thoughts on “Being An Adult Hodgepodge

  1. I am very impressed with your answer for #1. Way to go on the coffee system for church. That onion jam sounds interesting. Great answer for #4. Enjoy your trip. That was very sweet of your son to do that.

  2. Another vote for In-N-Out Burgers! Your #1 is inspirational and that’s great that you now have a much more efficient coffee-making process. Have a great rest of your week!

  3. Hi Ellen, I enjoyed reading your post! I just had an In and Our protein burger. University of Redlands in California? That is about an hour away from me. Enjoy your time with your family!

  4. A delightful Hodge Podge and thoroughly enjoyed those photos. The one with you and the Volkswagen Beetle is great, and so is the family picture. How sweet of your son to give such a precious gift to his dear bride. I think that’s marvelous! We are fans of In-N-Out Burgers here but alas there are none for many, many miles. We go to California for them and that’s been years. I understand they are in Arizona, Utah, Texas, Oregon, Colorado, and Idaho but no plans to come further east 😦

  5. Onion jam sounds like something I’d like on a burger. We haven’t had corn yet, but I am looking forward to that for sure. Yay for that new coffee system! It’s the little things, right? I too feel a sense of urgency for those I love. Have a nice rest of the week!

  6. Your answer to the question about priorities was very poignant and made me realize that is something that I need to be more concerned about for others. How nice of you to make a lovely meal for family. I´m sure you enjoyed spending time with your son and grandkids.

  7. I loved what you said about getting yourself to various things. I feel like even I did that as a kid in the 80s and teen in the 90s. Kids now don’t seem to even want to go anywhere!

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