Our Pop’s Story continued…
This is our Pop’s story dictated verbally by him a few years ago. I’ll be sharing excerpts every Tuesday. When I add to his story or explain a photo I will Italicize my words. Our Pop’s words will not be italicized. Our mom does not come into Pop’s story until “Tuesdays With Moisi ~ 9” even though I’ve posted photos of her before #9. I have very few photos from our parents’ life in Russia and Persia. At the end of my Tuesday posts I’ll add links to all the other posts.
The next day we went to the city of Guran in order to buy the wedding necessities. When we were there, Nadia’s father pulled me aside and said, “Moisi, since we’re here in the city why don’t we make a quick trip to the doctors and have you checked out as to whether you can father children or not.” I was again so embarrassed that I was looking for the proverbial hole to jump into. I answered, “Listen, if you’re not willing to accept me the way I am, let’s just forget about the whole thing and go back home.” (Ironically we had nine children – more than anyone else in my family). The fact that I was thoroughly offended got through to him and he backed off. And so we bought the necessary supplies for the wedding and went to work on the preparations. We were married sometime in July but I am not sure of the exact date.
The very first Sunday after our wedding, we were on our way to church. We had to pass the Baptist church to get to the Molokan church. As we came abreast the Baptist church, Nadia said, “Let’s go in.” I declined saying that we should go to the Molokan church. We literally stood there for an hour arguing as to what church we should attend.
We finally ended up just going back home. Why the argument? I was told I was to be the man of the house. I was told not to forget the religion I was brought up in with its traditions. I was told that if I attended the Baptist church, they would pressure me to be baptized and that would seal my doom. So I was afraid of attending that church. Our first years together after marriage were not too pleasant because of our disagreement over religion. Nadia’s faith was personal while mine was not.
We lived in Iran for four years after our marriage – two years in Rakhmanabad and two years in Teheran. Our marriage improved somewhat in Teheran because I worked Sundays. This allowed Nadia to attend the Baptist church which blunted the sharp edges of our disagreement. I worked first for the American military and then for the Russian military as a mechanic. Lastly I worked for a brick factory also as a mechanic.
Somehow when my parents filled out their legal papers coming into the U.S. they chose September 13th as their marriage date. We celebrated that day and our mom died on my parents’ 70th wedding anniversary, September 13, 2013.
This photo was taken a month before our mom left this earth.