Have Patience Hodgepodge

On Tuesday we took our first walk of the year on the Rotary Trail here in Colville. What a beautiful day!

Thank you to Joyce From This Side of the Pond for Wednesday Hodgepodge.

1. Do you complete your own tax returns or hire out? Something you’ve found taxing lately? 

When we have to complete tax returns, we’ve always hired out.

I am finding weeding and other planter upkeep more and more taxing on my body the older I get. Just getting down and up again can be a challenge. Using the weed wacker and the hedge trimmer is harder and harder.

2. It’s spring (in the northern hemisphere anyway)…would you rather spend the day hiking in the great outdoors or planting a garden? Do you/will you have a garden this year? Flowers, vegetables, or a bit of both?

I’m not a hiker or a gardener. I will walk on relatively flat areas with gentle slopes in the great outdoors and I will weed the planters and mow in the grassy areas. We have a wonderful array of perennials that pop up every year without any help from me. I owe those lovely spots of color to previous owners of our country bungalow. Besides peonies, columbines, lavender, day lilies, lily of the valley, we have a relentless rhubarb plant and some garlic that emerges without help from us.

3. Do you consider yourself a patient person?

On the outside I can be very patient. I’m a Born Again follower of Jesus and because of that I am in a lifelong Sanctification process where the Holy Spirit is working on my inside changing my mind about a lot of things through what I read in God’s Word, The Bible. Part of that process is in making me more patient on the inside.

In what sort of situation is patience not desirable?

When your house is on fire or when a life is at risk it is time to abandon patience!

Are you happy with the degree of patience you have in your daily life? If not, what can you do to cultivate more of this quality in your life? 

In many situations I pray that God would give me a ‘Mary’ attitude instead of a ‘Martha’ attitude.

But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.” Luke 10:41-42

The good portion is Jesus, believing on Him, sitting at His feet, following Him and learning more about Him and loving Him more and more which develops into a solid trust.

Some practical steps I’ve practiced lately…

Let someone go ahead of me in line. Plan ahead and give myself all the time necessary to accomplish tasks or get to an appointment on time. Think about the other person in a situation and consider what they might be going through. Don’t think too highly of myself and my importance. Consider the other person as important. Tell myself, I’m not in charge of the World, God is.

4. Do you like the flavor cinnamon? If so what’s your favorite something made with cinnamon? 

I do enjoy cinnamon. I don’t have them often but I won’t turn down a fresh out of the oven cinnamon roll!

5. Learn by watching or learn by doing? Elaborate. 

I need both the watching and the doing. After watching I can dive in and do and then I am more confident and better equipped to do.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Do any of you remember the Kids Psalty song ‘Have Patience’ from the 80’s?

Have patience, have patience, don’t be in such a hurry. When you get impatient you only start to worry. Remember, remember, that God is patient, too. And think of all the times that others had to wait for you. 

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24 thoughts on “Have Patience Hodgepodge

  1. YES!! “When your house is on fire or when a life is at risk it is time to abandon patience!” I had to laugh how you wrote this, but I said the same, when trouble is brewing… abandon patience.

    Happy Spring!!! Carla

  2. Psalty!!! Yes! So many car rides to the grandparents or cousins listening to Psalty. 🙂

    Totally remember that song!

  3. I don’t remember that particular song, but my girls and I loved listening to Psalty in the car. I think I may still have one or two of the cassettes. And of course no player lol. Have a nice weekend!

  4. You have beautiful views, Ellen, and I enjoyed reading all your answers. I agree that gardening is getting harder on my old joints– I’m taking a break this summer from planting any vegetables in my garden. I spent a lot of time on it last year and then the deer knocked down my fences and ate it all!

  5. I definitely remember that kids song about patience! Wasn’t it a snail or something that sang it in the video? Great memory. I’ve found that separating the things that are NOT in my control (like the traffic, or what other people are doing) from the things that I DO control (my own planning and my attitude) helps me to be more patient. As I get older a lot of things that used to make me impatient just don’t seem that big a deal any more. Have a great week!

  6. Not much of a hiker either although I do like to try itty bitty hikes to enjoy enjoy with my family. They all like to hike! Not the most patient person either. But I do like cinnamon. I enjoyed your answers as well as that gorgeous photo at the top!!

  7. Yes, the older we get the harder it is to take care of the house. Your garden sounds lovely. I love your relationship with Jesus. I don’t remember that song but I like it.

  8. Yes! I remember the Psalty songs! Loved Psalty! My older kids grew up with Kids’ Praise cassettes. Ron (face full of blue makeup) actually played Psalty once in a church production!

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